Shyness often times an obstacle in getting the woman you dream of. This is one experience most of men encounter once or many times in their lives and it’s natural. Men think that they may commit mistakes when having a conversation with the woman they like; mistakes like getting tongue-tied, run out of words, etc. And the most common problem of men when it comes to women is this: taking the first step, they don’t know how to start a nice conversation and how to instill a good impression to the girl. Thus, they tend to be overpowered by their weakness also known as “SHYNESS”.

To make a good impression, start a nice conversation that catches her interests. Always be yourself, don’t ever pretend like someone else, you might get into trouble in the long run. Establish a relationship that is based on truth and not lies. Don’t expect that she would fall in love with you immediately. Remember, love takes time to bloom, it is like a flower.

Always be natural in talking to her, don’t do scripts! You might forget what will be your next line, lol. Take it easy, you should enjoy each and every moment being with her. Be a good listener when she tells a story, note the things that she loves as well as the things that hates.

I don’t believe in “always step your best foot forward” when dealing with a girl only to have a good impression. It is better to balance things, tell her the things that make you mad, the worst man you could ever be in some ugly situations. In this way, she will know more about you, your bad side and not only angelic side. Honesty will still be the best policy even with relationships.

Be confident and impress her intellectually, women like men that aren’t dumb! Make her laugh as often, laugh means she’s enjoying being with you J.

With these done correctly, you will overcome your shyness and eventually have the girl you ever wanted. Go ahead and mingle with other women, don’t hold back. Just be yourself, relax and enjoy every minute of it.